Slipping By? by kerminator …..

Included is a method to evaluate your time spent! Most people slip through this earthly life without a real reason; or even attempting to understand their eternal purpose!

Date: 6/29/2009 06:51:48 GMT

“Like it or not each person who has ever lived upon this earth; {with exception of Christ!} for the most part, has tended to live a life filled with trivial pursuits and a few ideal pleasures!” a True-ism

While we all understand that life has certain basic conditions which must or should be met; this does not nullify the over bearing reason for our eternal purpose! We will not be able to deliver a complete detailed list of each persons eternal purpose here; we will give you a method or way to survey your life… Once you complete this survey and then take time to hold an open objective assessment, you should be able to come closer to finding where you are falling short..

This over view is not meant to be a complete survey; rather it be a guide to help point you in the right direction for the improvement of your eternal situation or direction! Like all things in your life the real determining factor is YOU! The decisions you make or do not make will forever determine or control the condition of your eternal soul!

Remember only you hold the key to where you spend Eternity! While we are not just blowing smoke here, you should give ultimate passion and purpose to this important action in your Life! It all hinges upon your decisions and actions… Do not waste your earthly time!

Following is an over view to help you become the person you really want to be in the Eternity beyond!

Lets look at your life at present:

Note that this is covering a 24 hour period, attempt to round to the nearest 15 minutes (quarter hour), include even ideal time, share or split the time spent on any simultaneous actives, ex. eating while watching TV…

There are 10,080 Minutes in a week!

How do you spend your time?

1) Make a list of your actives, with the days of the week across the top, then on the side show a line for each activity you engage in per example, sleep, eat, work or duties, church, personal maintenance (as wash & necessary body functions), entertainment, play time, do nothing time, etc. Then keep track of your actives for the week…

2) Once you have several weeks a pattern should become obvious… This will show where your time is spent, then you will be able to see where you should adjust your life… You should be able to produce a summery table which shows where your time is being spent!

3) Once you get a handle on how you spend your time; it is possible to discover your Eternal purpose! Most of people’s time is spent in ideal pursuits, which could be better spent… This is the important section where you can come to grips with how you spend your time and plan to adjust or change it as needed!

This is where you can find time to seek God in your life… Do you have a passion for God in your life? Do you understand your Eternal purpose? Then: Set a side some quite time!

This is where you can come face to face with Eternity!

Slipping Through Life?  by kerminator

Slipping By? by kerminator …..

Most people slip through this earthly life without a real passion for God; or even attempting to understand their eternal purpose!

Date: 6/29/2009 16:51:48  GMT

“Like it or not each person who has ever lived upon this earth; {with exception of Christ!}   for the most part, has tended to live a life filled with trivial pursuits and a few ideal pleasures!”                a True-ism

While we all understand that life has certain basic conditions which must or should be met; this does not nullify the over bearing reason for our eternal purpose! We will not be able to deliver a complete detailed list of each persons eternal purpose here; we will give you a method or way to survey your life…  Once you complete this survey and then take time to hold an open objective assessment, you should be able to come closer to finding where you are falling short..

This over view is not meant to be a complete survey; rather it should help point you in the right direction to improvement your eternal situation or direction! Like all things in your life the real determining factor is YOU!   The decisions you make or do not make will forever determine or control the condition of your eternal  soul!

Remember only you hold the key to where you spend Eternity!  While we are not just blowing smoke here, you should give ultimate passion and purpose to this important action in your Life!  It all hinges upon your decisions and actions…  Do not waste your earthly time!

Following is an over view to help you become the person you really want to be in the Eternity beyond!

Lets look at your life at present:

There are 10,080 Minutes in a week!         How do you spend your time?

Make a list of your actives, with the days of the week across the top, then on the side show a line for each activity you engage in per example, sleep, eat, work or duties, church, personal maintenance (as wash & necessary body functions), entertainment, play time, do nothing time, etc.  Then keep track of your actives for the week…   Once you have several weeks a pattern should become obvious…  This will show where your time is spent, then you will be able to see where you should adjust your life…

Once you get a handle on how you spend your time; it is possible to discover your Eternal purpose! Most of people’s time is spent in ideal pursuits, which could be better spent…

This is where you can find time to seek God in your life… Set a side some quite time!

This is where you can come face to face with Eternity!

Are you just slipping through your life?

6 Sex Mistakes Women Make ** “The { } are comments added by the blog author!”

WebMD explains the 6 biggest sex mistakes women often make and the reasons why!
By Lisa Zamosky
WebMD Feature
Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD

Ladies, be honest: when your sex life becomes a little humdrum, out comes the mental catalog of all the ways your partner isn’t quite measuring up. Guys tend to get a bad rap when it comes to understanding women’s bodies and what turns us on, making them easy targets in the blame game when sexual satisfaction starts to wane. Sure, men make their fair share of bedroom errors. But as the saying goes, it takes two to tango. As it turns out, key sex and relationship experts say that women make plenty of sex mistakes of their own. Here’s what they have to say about the six most common mistakes women make in the bedroom and what you can do to get the satisfaction you so rightly deserve.

Sex Mistake #1: Not Initiating Sex With Your Partner
It’s 2009 and still, many of us worry about ladylike behavior. We don’t want to appear pushy or come on too strong for fear of being labeled aggressive. According to Les Parrot, professor of psychology at Seattle Pacific University and author of a new book called Crazy Good Sex, failing to initiate sex is one of the biggest mistakes women make.

“Most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets up disequilibrium on the passion scale in the relationship,” he says. Generally, men want to be pursued by their partners just as much as women do.

Holding onto outdated ideas about sex roles also inhibits satisfaction with our sexual relationships, says “Dr. Ruth,” aka Ruth Westheimer, PhD, a psycho sexual therapist, professor at New York University, and lecturer at Yale and Princeton universities. “They used to think that women are less interested in sexual activity and I don’t want to say that anymore. I think there are women who are as interested in sex as men.”

Show your interest by taking the first step from time to time. Your partner will likely appreciate it, and you may find a new level of satisfaction in taking responsibility for your sexual experience, something Westheimer feels strongly women must do.

Sex Mistake #2: Worrying About What You Look Like
Thinking about how you look during sex stops you from enjoying yourself and ruins your chances of achieving an orgasm.

“Don’t think about the fat on your belly or the makeup on your face,” advises Westheimer. “Concentrate on the pleasure of the act. You must give yourself permission to have an orgasm.”

“Men want their wives to abandon themselves in sex play, and that’s not likely if she is anxious about her physical concerns,” Parrott says.

{BTW: Once a man is up close and personal; believe me he is not worried about how you look, it’s only the physical contact that counts…)

Ruth Fisher, PhD, a cultural anthropologist at Rutgers University and author of a new book called Why Him, Why Her, says men don’t notice half the things women obsess about anyway.

{ BTW: So get over that it will always be perfect or that all men only want is to jump & pump then head for the shower; neither are true!} Read the other (4)four mistakes women usually make about sexual intercourse with men! At the WebMD site… Enjoy

Life in change! by kerminator …..

Life is about change, it all comes about by the decisions we make or do not make!

Date:   6/21/2009 13:04:30 GMT

 “Life is in constant change! If you do not believe it just wait, it will change!”  a True-ism

  So many people seem to just settle into a routine in their life and never venture beyond their supposedly safe (familiar) zone of existence!  This is called living under opposition and control…

   Many people even those in Churches or so called religious areas of life tend, to not act or react to the new situations placed on their pathway of life! HUH! Why is it that conformity is so prevalent today? Are people just so fearful to expand their horizons or are they lost to the concept of new ideas?

 IT appears that many have just accepted the lie that there resistance is futile and there is no need to improve or expand their life! Fear and apprehension are some more defeating themes used to discourage people… Once people buy into the ” it’s no use, why try ” theme; they are lost and under the control of the Kingdom of Darkness! Even those who are supposedly in the churches or in some states of supposed salvation…    

 Many “believers” have some desire for Spiritual Gifts or knowledge; yet they may be “open” for the Lord God to use them, they are rarely used! They have forgotten or never understood that we are required to ask, seek & knock in order to receive the true intentions for God in their lives! IT takes faith and persistence to receive what you seek!  In other words take a risk step out on faith!

 The question is where are you on your pathway of life, dear friend?   Today, there is a conflict between the Kingdom of God and the Kingdom of Darkness which is more that just a conflict between truth and error; it is a confrontation of Supernatural Powers with both sides available to fill the Spiritual Void in life of mankind…

 To not make any decision or to procrastinate is to give in to the least desired side of control and darkness… Only if you seek will you find therefore put your faith to work and persistently ask The Lord God for direction in your life… You must earnestly desire the Spiritual Gifts if you are ever going to receive them!  

 God or the Spirit of Righteousness is not forced upon a person, but the Kingdom of Darkness will grip your soul, then will drive you under the control of evil practices and thoughts!  It takes only inaction or following vain desires to fall into a life of dispare and senseless grief!

 BTW: This is where most of the people in history have lived; only because they did not believe in the Eternal Goodness of God then learn to seek and accept the real purpose of their life!
 
  Remember that making no decision is a decision!    

 Where do you really want to be in the Eternity to come?   Just maybe it is time for you to change for the Good?

Lies or Confusion? by Kerminator …..

How can one misinterpreted letter be considered counter the views of all fifty states constitutions?

Date: 5/18/2009 11:10:37 GMT

One letter – 50 Statements « on: Today at 07:01 »

So where does the so term ” Separation of Church and State “come from?

Well it is only found in one (1) letter from Thomas Jefferson to the Baptist Convention in New England; stating that the state {government} should not set up or mandate any church {religious belief system} upon the people of the United States!

Then in the 1950′s the Supreme Court made a ruling; using this literally; even though it is not in the US Constitution! It has been a down hill battle ever since… With every anti church group using this to stop the people from recognizing their own personal religious beliefs!

Let’s look at all the Preambles of the 50 states! It makes you wonder how this thing has gotten so out of hand!

“The truth is always there for you to follow; unless you just ignore it!” a True-ism

Alabama 1901, Preamble
We the people of the State of Alabama , invoking the favor and guidance of Almighty God, do ordain and establish the following Constitution..

Alaska 1956, Preamble We, the people of Alaska , grateful to God and to those who founded our nation and pioneered this great land.

Arizona 1911, Preamble We, the people of the State of Arizona , grateful to Almighty God for our liberties, do ordain this Constitution…

Arkansas 1874, Preamble We, the people of the State of Arkansas , grateful to Almighty God for the privilege of choosing our own form of government…

California 1879, Preamble We, the People of the State of California , grateful to Almighty God for our freedom…

Colorado 1876, Preamble We, the people of Colorado , with profound reverence for the Supreme Ruler of Universe…

Connecticut 1818, Preamble. The People of Connecticut , acknowledging with gratitude the good Providence of God in permitting them to enjoy.

Delaware 1897, Preamble Through Divine Goodness all men have, by nature, the rights of worshipping and serving their Creator according to the dictates of their consciences…

Florida 1885, Preamble We, the people of the State of Florida , grateful to Almighty God for our constitutional liberty, establish this Constitution…

Georgia 1777, Preamble We, the people of Georgia , relying upon protection and guidance of Almighty God, do ordain and establish this Constitution…

Hawaii 1959, Preamble We , the people of Hawaii , Grateful for Divine Guidance … Establish this Constitution.

Idaho 1889, Preamble We, the people of the State of Idaho , grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, to secure its blessings.

Illinois 1870, Preamble We, the people of the State of Illinois, grateful to Almighty God for the civil , political and religious liberty which He hath so long permitted us to enjoy and looking to Him for a blessing on our endeavors.

Indiana 1851, Preamble We, the People of the State of Indiana , grateful to Almighty God for the free exercise of the right to choose our form of government.

Iowa 1857, Preamble We, the People of the St ate of Iowa , grateful to the Supreme Being for the blessings hitherto enjoyed, and feeling our dependence on Him for a continuation of these blessings, establish this Constitution.

Kansas 1859, Preamble We, the people of Kansas , grateful to Almighty God for our civil and religious privileges establish this Constitution.

Kentucky 1891, Preamble.. We, the people of the Commonwealth are grateful to Almighty God for the civil, political and religious liberties..

Louisiana 1921, Preamble We, the people of the State of Louisiana , grateful to Almighty God for the civil, political and religious liberties we enjoy.

Maine 1820, Preamble We the People of Maine acknowledging with grateful hearts the goodness of the Sovereign Ruler of the Universe in affording us an opportunity .. And imploring His aid and direction.

Maryland 1776, Preamble We, the people of the state of Maryland , grateful to Almighty God for our civil and religious liberty…

Massachusetts 1780, Preamble We…the people of Massachusetts, acknowledging with grateful hearts, the goodness of the Great Legislator of the Universe In the course of His Providence, an opportunity and devoutly imploring His direction

Michigan 1908, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Michigan , grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of freedom, establish this Constitution.

Minnesota, 1857, Preamble We, the people of the State of Minnesota, grateful to God for our civil and religious liberty, and desiring to perpetuate its blessings:

Mississippi 1890, Preamble We, the people of Mississippi in convention assembled, grateful to Almighty God, and invoking His blessing on our work.

Missouri 1845, Preamble We, the people of Missouri , with profound reverence for the Supreme Ruler of the Universe, and grateful for His goodness . Establish this Constitution…

Montana 1889, Preamble. We, the people of Montana , grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of liberty establish this Constitution .

Nebraska 1875, Preamble We, the people, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom . Establish this Constitution.

Nevada 1864, Preamble We the people of the State of Nevada , grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, establish this Constitution…

New Hampshire 1792, Part I. Art. I. Sec. V Every individual has a natural and unalienable right to worship God according to the dictates of his own conscience.

New Jersey 1844, Preamble We, the people of the State of New Jersey, grateful to Almighty God for civil and religious liberty which He hath so long permitted us to enjoy, and looking to Him for a blessing on our endeavors.

New Mexico 1911, Preamble We, the People of New Mexico, grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of liberty..

New York 1846, Preamble We, the people of the State of New York , grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, in order to secure its blessings.

North Carolina 1868, Preamble We the people of the State of North Carolina, grateful to Almighty God, the Sovereign Ruler of Nations, for our civil, political, and religious liberties, and acknowledging our dependence upon Him for the continuance of those…

North Dakota 1889, Preamble We , the people of North Dakota , grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of civil and religious liberty, do ordain…

Ohio 1852, Preamble We the people of the state of Ohio , grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, to secure its blessings and to promote our common.

Oklahoma 1907, Preamble Invoking the guidance of Almighty God, in order to secure and perpetuate the blessings of liberty, establish this

Oregon 1857, Bill of Rights, Article I Section 2. All men shall be secure in the Natural right, to worship Almighty God according to the dictates of their consciences

Pennsylvania 1776, Preamble We, the people of Pennsylvania, grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of civil and religious liberty, and humbly invoking His guidance….

Rhode Island 1842, Preamble. We the People of the State of Rhode Island grateful to Almighty God for the civil and religious liberty which He hath so long permitted us to enjoy, and looking to Him for a blessing…

South Carolina, 1778, Preamble We, the people of he State of South Carolina grateful to God for our liberties, do ordain and establish this Constitution.

South Dakota 1889, Preamble We, the people of South Dakota , grateful to Almighty God for our civil and religious liberties …

Tennessee 1796, Art. XI..III. That all men have a natural and indefeasible right to worship Almighty God according to the dictates of their conscience…

Texas 1845, Preamble We the People of the Republic of Texas , acknowledging, with gratitude, the grace and beneficence of God.

Utah 1896, Preamble Grateful to Almighty God for life and liberty, we establish this Constitution.

Vermont 1777, Preamble Whereas all government ought to enable the individuals who compose it to enjoy their natural rights, and other blessings which the Author of Existence has bestowed on man ..

Virginia 1776, Bill of Rights, XVI Religion, or the Duty which we owe our Creator can be directed only by Reason and that it is the mutual duty of all to practice Christian Forbearance, Love and Charity towards each other

Washington 1889, Preamble We the People of the State of Washington, grateful to the Supreme Ruler of the Universe for our liberties, do ordain this Constitution

West Virginia 1872, Preamble Since through Divine Providence we enjoy the blessings of civil, political and religious liberty, we, the people of West Virginia reaffirm our faith in and constant reliance upon God …

Wisconsin 1848, Preamble We, the people of Wisconsin, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, domestic tranquility…

Wyoming 1890, Preamble We, the people of the State of Wyoming, grateful to God for our civil, political, and religious liberties, establish this Constitution…

After reviewing acknowledgments of God from all 50 state constitutions, one is faced with the prospect that maybe, the general view is confused with the intent of the orig. letter… Even the ACLU and most of the present (out-of-control) federal courts are confused also! If you found this to be ‘Food for thought’ send to as many as you think would like to be enlightened as I hope you were.

Note: Actually Thomas Jefferson had it right, that there should not be any government (state) control over the religious views of the common people! It is also true that there should not be any church or religious group directing policy for the government… Therefore in a sense it is a separation of the practices and views of the government with any religious groups… Each should be independent to practice within their own areas of concern! This does not mean that the government does not recognize and participate in the actives of the religious sector! Rather it means that the government must not make any laws restricting religious actives… i.e. Freedom of Religion!

Please note that at no time is anyone told that they MUST worship God.)

GOD BLESS AMERICA

BTW: if you think all of these States Constitutions were wrong we would like to hear your reply!

Somethings learned in South Georgia many years ago… Most are still relevant today!

See if you agree with these True-isms:

“Life is given to be enjoyed, learn to use it wisely!”

“Enjoy you travel down the pathway of life, it is only one way, one time, with one chance to be successful!”

“Remember we all have far too much to be sad!”

“Eating, and Intercourse were meant to be enjoyed with another person never alone!”

“Work will never take care of us when we are sick or disabled, only friends will!”

“Whether the situation you are in is good or bad, remember it will change!”

“What ever others think of us is never under our control!”

“Try to Learn something new every day!”

“A day you do not learn something new is a day wasted!”

“Make peace with your past, do not let it ruin your future!”

“Mankind was made to be happy and satisfied; not miserable and wretched!”

Some good advice! HUH!

Analyze or Criticize by kerminator …..

There is a vast difference between criticize (judgment) and helping or analyzing a situatiion!

Date: 6/8/2009 09:33:06 GMT

There has always been a thin line between analyzing someone or something and criticizing! a True-ism

What should you do when confronting a new or different situation in your life?

Well we all will generally tend to make some sense of the new or different situation… This is the natural approach!

How we do this is the question at hand!

For most of us it comes down to comparing and making critical remarks or observations… If we are honest and look back into our
physique make up, we would find that most remarks are some form of jealousy or predigest…

This may be hard for some of us to accept but many times this is the “Honest to God” Truth! Why?

Because we are really self centered people! It is generally all about us, or so we think and therefor judge!
Criticism becomes our prime method of looking at others and their ideas or situations…

It is easy to say they did or did not do something or the other; the way we think they should have… It is the old adage that there may be a log in our eye while we try to criticize a splinter on another eye… i.e. We can’t see the forest for the trees so to speak… We generally over look our own differences when criticizing others!

The key here is to come to the realization that we do not know it all… HUH! Then we should take an approach that allows for growth and concern… This is where we must learn to apply a system of analyzing the situation!

To accurately analyze any situation, requires certain steps to be followed:

1) Make some determination as to what and or where this situation fits into the fabric of life (yours or theirs)!

2) Is the situation a real concern (life or death) or just a passing fancy or fad?

3) If you feel it is a concern, then how personal or critical is it to your life? Here you must decide on some more immediate results!

4) If it is critical to your life, then to what degree or period of time does the situation apply? Once you determine it is a life or death situation then you must react accordingly!

5) If it is imminent or soon coming to pass then a more immediate response is required than otherwise! (Action or response is key!)

6) From here you must take a more systematic (critical to those of less concern) approach of analyzing…

Things in life fall into one of the following categories; familiar and known facts or new, original plus perhaps even unknown facts…

We will look at this realm of thinking in another blog, stay tuned !

Plus you can check www.simplytruth.com-index for more info 24 x 7 !

Stages of men’s life by kerminator …..

Every male young or old finds himself on a great journey, though which few find their destiny and purpose!

Date: 6/2/2009 07:35:33

“There are certain stages that should be lived by all men.” a True-ism
While the opportunity is there for all men; many either do not choose or never really take the effort to become the man their were meant to be! How and why does this happen?

It is usually because there is not a knowledgeable father figure in the life of a boy! Especially in the more modern generation… HUH!

The traditional way of the young men learning the ways of life from the elders is almost past into the history books… We are in an instant generation mode now a days… Instant messaging, instant adventure, instant foods, instant gratification to mention a few… People just do not want to take time to learn the reason for their lives today! Sad but true!

So in many parts of the world we have uninitiated men, who are lost in the realm of manhood!

It all goes back to the fact that masculinity in never completed, if it ever began… The boy was never taken down the pathway of becoming a full man… This reflects not only in the family unit, but in the society as a whole… This is exactly why many males today are unfinished men!

Masculinity is actually a on going journey, an adventure, a process which unfolds over a lifetime.

As men we were never meant to try and figure everything out on our own… We were created to develop and grow into the valiant warrior, king, lover, father figure ourselves in the course of our life! We do not need to wander in the wilderness as it were, or stumble in the fog…

Starting with the boy we were created to proceed in steps, learning as God ordained us the stages of masculine development… This was woven into the very fabric of our being etched as it were into our soul!

There goes out a call for the unfinished men, to seek and rediscover the stages of masculinity and to come to honor and learn to rise our sons through them!

We will be covering this to aid men to find the pathway of masculinity needed by many in their life today. This is an on going process…